Most "deep questions" lists are the same 20 prompts copy-pasted everywhere. Ours are written specifically for couples who want to actually understand each other, not just fill silence. Here's a sample from each topic — the full game has ten questions in every category.
Worldview and Values
- What do you believe in, even if you can't prove it?
- What does being a strong person mean to you?
- Which principles would you never break, even for personal gain?
Family and Childhood
- What did your childhood feel like?
- How did your family handle conflict?
- In what way are you like your parents — and in what way do you not want to be?
Love, Intimacy and Relationships
- Do you think love is a feeling or a choice?
- What slowly but powerfully destroys a relationship?
- What counts as betrayal to you, beyond the obvious?
Future and Meaning
- What kind of life do you want to live?
- What does "not living life in vain" mean to you?
- What dream do you have that you rarely talk about?
Money, Work and Ambition
- Does money give you freedom or security?
- What matters more to you: work you love or a stable income?
- What are you willing to do for your goal?
Friendship and People
- How do you know you can trust someone?
- What kind of people drain your energy?
- What would you never be able to forgive a friend for?
Fears and Vulnerabilities
- What are you most afraid of, honestly?
- What kind of criticism hurts you the most?
- What's still hard for you to forgive yourself for?
Self and Inner World
- Who do people think you are, and who are you really?
- What makes you feel alive?
- What trait of yours did you long consider a weakness?
Deep Questions to Reflect On
- Can you love someone and still leave?
- What's the difference between loneliness and solitude?
- What question are you afraid to ask yourself?