Long Distance Relationship Games & Questions

When you can't be in the same room, a conversation game is the easiest date night there is. Open this on a video call, take turns drawing a card, and actually talk about something other than "how was your day." No app to install on either end — just a link you both open.

Most tools built for long distance couples ask you to download the same app and make an account. A website skips all of that — whoever's turn it is shares their screen, or you both open the link separately and call out what you drew. Works over FaceTime, Zoom, Discord, a phone call, anything.

Questions for long distance couples

  1. When do you feel distance between us?
  2. What do you need to hear when you doubt yourself?
  3. What kind of support do you want from me?
  4. When do you need more closeness instead?
  5. What helps you not run from a difficult conversation?
  6. What can we do right now so we don't drift apart?
  7. What do you want us to learn to discuss without fear?
  8. How will you know our relationship has grown deeper?
  9. What about us feels rare to you?
  10. What do you love about me on a level that's hard to explain?

Games to play on a video call

Pick a deck, take turns drawing, and answer out loud. The everyday deck is the easier entry point for a quick call; the deep deck is better for the long calls where you've got nowhere to be after.

Play together right now

Share this page, pick a deck, draw your first card.

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Questions to Ask Your Partner
100 questions about trust, love, and your relationship day to day.
Deep Questions
90 questions about values, family, fears, and meaning — by topic.
Conversation Cards
What conversation cards are, and why play them online.