Whether you've been together for years or just started dating, the right question at the right moment can open up a conversation you didn't know you needed to have. Below are sample questions from our two decks — the full game shuffles through all of them and keeps score for you.
Questions to ask your partner about your relationship
- What about me makes you feel at home?
- When do you feel distance between us?
- How do you know someone is truly choosing you?
- What does healthy freedom in a couple look like to you?
- When do you feel like we're a team?
- What counts as a real apology to you?
- What quietly destroys trust over time?
- What does "choosing each other every day" mean to you?
- What can we do right now so we don't drift apart?
- What do you love about me on a level that's hard to explain?
Want something deeper, or lighter?
If tonight calls for something more reflective, try our deep questions to ask your partner — 90 questions about values, fears, family, and the future, organized by topic. If you'd rather keep things easy and warm, start with our fun questions instead.