30 Love Messages for Him or Her

A little longer than a quote, a little more "I actually wrote this for you" than a copy-paste line. Sorted by when you'd send it.

Good morning

  1. Woke up before my alarm and the first thing I did was think about you. Hope today's a good one.
  2. I don't know what today has planned for you, but I hope it knows you're loved before it starts.
  3. Just a normal good morning text, except I mean it more than usual today.
  4. Coffee's not as good without you across the table, but it'll do until tonight.
  5. Sending this before you're even properly awake so it's the first thing you see. Good morning.

Goodnight

  1. Whatever today was, it's over now. Sleep well, I've got you tomorrow too.
  2. Goodnight. I'm grateful for you in a quiet, unremarkable, every-single-day kind of way.
  3. Hope your dreams are better than today was, and if today was good, hope they keep up.
  4. Last thing before I sleep: you're the best part of how this day went.
  5. Goodnight from someone who's already looking forward to tomorrow because of you.

Missing you

  1. Not going to make this dramatic — I just miss you and wanted you to know.
  2. Today had a you-shaped gap in it. Counting down until that's fixed.
  3. I keep almost texting you things and then remembering I can just tell you later. Still, miss you now.
  4. Distance doesn't change much except how often I think about you, which somehow goes up.
  5. No real reason for this text except that I miss you and figured you should know.

Just to say I love you

  1. No occasion. Just wanted to say it before the day got busy.
  2. Reminder that you're loved, on a completely ordinary Tuesday, for no reason except that it's true.
  3. I love you in the boring parts too — the errands, the bad traffic, all of it.
  4. Thought you should know you're still my favorite person, same as yesterday.
  5. Just felt like telling you I love you. That's the whole message.

After a fight

  1. Still upset, still love you. Those two things can be true at once.
  2. I don't have this fully figured out yet, but I know I don't want distance between us over it.
  3. Give me a little time, but don't read it as anything other than that — I'll be ready to talk soon.
  4. I'm sorry for the part of that I made worse. Let's actually fix it, not just move past it.
  5. Mad at the situation, not at us. We'll get through this part like we get through everything else.

A message says it. A conversation explains it.

Draw a card and actually talk it through.

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